Thought 4 Today…Thought 4 LIFE!
So…Do YOU Love YourSelf…Would You Be Your Valentine?!
Loving YourSelf is the single most important principle…on this planet… in the creation process. If you don’t love yourSelf, it is likely that you won’t decide to give yourSelf the things you think you want. Likely that you won’t think you deserve them…and even more that you certainly won’t have the energy to take action to create them.
When we were born, most of us were the center of the Universe. Remember? Everything revolved around us and our welfare. And then around age 2, socialization took over and familial and societal rules demanded the giving up of Self. Remember that… share the toy you want, don’t ask for what you want, don’t want. Good little girls and boys didn’t do those things. Now we’re adults screaming, “Why can’t I create what I want?” Hey…I know!
It’s time to reclaim that little person inside that knew they were good enough, smart enough, brave enough, and special enough to ask for, and get, what they wanted. It’s been so long that most of us have lost the art of even knowing how to ask for what we want. Take it from “Little Rhonda” …it’s time!
In my speaking engagements and seminars, often, when I ask for people to state the above, I get responses like… “I don’t want to worry about money anymore,” and “I don’t want to be alone,” or “I don’t want this dis-ease, illness…this sickness.” Nobody says what they want!! They tell me what they want by stating what they DON’T want. Wow…what’s that about???!!!
It doesn’t tell me what anyone wants… it doesn’t give me clear direction. That is what most of us are doing with the Universe, and the Universe is replying… “Hey…YOU…I don’t understand the direction. Say What? I can’t deliver the performance…that which your Soul is requesting and craving!”
I say we all give ourselves permission to love ourSelves enough to give us – and the Creative Force – a very clear statement of desire for manifestation…that is, Wellness, Freedom, Love, Bliss, Security, Peace, Abundance, Grace & Happiness. I AM, and create, all in my life because I create me as these experiences within first. Match THAT, Universe. And the Universe says, “Yes.”
We all want money. Ask for it. We all want love and passion. Ask for it. We all want wellness and unlimited energy. Ask for it. What are we waiting for? Really!
The original meaning of the ancient Hebrew teaching “Ask and you receive” …was “Claim or Demand…and you receive.” Well, I am stepping forward to claim and demand the attributes of freedom, love, etc. to perfectly match up with the money and passion I claim. Really! Also… that all is good, in integrity, and unconditional love for all concerned… Including me. And I AM standing in my knowing that when I experience my own love and power, I give everyone the excitement, right and power to do the same.
And the Universe says “Yes,” “Little Rhonda”. The Universe says – “YES…your wish is my command!”
While I invite my audiences to consider a number of avenues to loving…yes, truly loving Self…I will leave you with what I consider the essentials of Loving YourSelf! They remain…
Treat others with love and respect. Bringing joy to other people’s lives will help you find joy in your own. In addition, those that you treat well will likely repay you with the same kindness. Gradually you will start to feel your worth through the smiles of gratitude. However, don’t just be very kind to people so you can receive royal treatment
Learn to let go of past events. You deserve a fresh beginning! There are a lot of people out there that have had hard lives/bad beginnings or moments. Don’t close yourSelf out of grief, disappointments, or fears of future ridicule. Acknowledge your feelings, but work to put them behind you. Cherish what you have learned from your challenges, and how you have changed and grown from them. Forgive those who have done you wrong. Most importantly, though, forgive yourSelf.
Forgive yourSelf. Don’t punish yourSelf for something you have done in the past. Instead, look at the mistake as a learning experience. Say to yourSelf now: “I forgive myself for _______.” Go look in a mirror and say it out loud to yourSelf. Look yourSelf right in the eyes and speak forgiveness like you mean it. Don’t ever demean or ridicule yourSelf. If you do, laugh out loud, realizing that was then and this is now. Every day is a new beginning. If you did something you are not proud of, resolve to never do it again and take steps to keep it out of your mind.
Do what you love. What do you love to do? If you could find something that you love to do and spend time doing it, you will experience love, joy, and happiness in your heart. That is when you truly connect with your authentic Self. As a result you become happier and more loving. Do what you love. What do you love to do? If you could find something that you love to do and spend time doing it, you will experience love, joy, and happiness in your heart. That is when you truly connect with your Authentic Self. As a result you become happier and more loving. Ask YourSelf…What makes my tail wag?!
Treat yourSelf like treating your very best friend. How do you treat your very best friend? Do you treat him/her with love, kindness, trust, appreciation, acceptance, and respect? If you can give that to your friend, why don’t you give that to yourSelf? Practice treating yourSelf like you treat your very best friend by saying kind words to yourSelf. Stop calling yourSelf names. Stop beating yourSelf up. Give yourSelf compliments. Know your boundaries and listen deeply to your needs. Always be kind and gentle with yourSelf.
Nurture yourself. Self care is very important. Set up some time to be by yourSelf, just by yourSelf. Do something that gives you peace, love, and joy with yourSelf. You can nurture yourSelf physically by exercising and consuming healthy food. You can nurture yourSelf emotionally by listening to love songs, painting, or helping others in need. As you give yourSelf to others and offer help, you receive the gift of love back. You feel good about yoursSelf because you live your life on purpose. You can nurture yourSelf mentally by reading your favorite books. You can nurture your spiritually by doing meditation.
We spend so much time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, yearning for that special love. Feeling empty and lost without it. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. Unfortunately, that’s not usually how life works. Loving yourSelf is mainly having Self-respect which is the only dependable way to create love in your own life to share with others. When you expect love from an external source, and someone or something does not fulfill your void and fantasies, then you will feel worse than before. To be able to be loved, you must love and respect yourSelf as much as you do others. Understanding the effects of loving yourSelf will only enhance your ability to love others. By doing so, you are enabling positive energy and allowing for great situations to occur in your life. This guide will help. Never think that you’re living your life for nothing. Everyday, there are people coming in and out of the world, so spend it wisely and respect yourSelf.
In order to love someone, we must love OurSelf! Of this, I AM certain!
BE The Source Within You…NOW!
To Our Health, Wealth & Empowerment Together!
With Love & Blessings!
Thought 4 Today…Thought 4 LIFE!
Our New Year 2021 has begun!
New Year means Time for New YOU!
2020 turned many of our world’s upside down… and things suddenly didn’t work any longer. Relationships were stressed to the breaking point, with some breaking into pieces so they are not recognizable for some of us. The way we do business has caused many of us to regroup…and enter the digital age in even larger ways. Priorities, and what’s really important in our Life became a focus…for those of us who took the time to understand that 2020 carried with it Blessings, as well as the not so good stuff!
It is because we are being called to create anew… from an Awakened Perspective…from a different place of energy and Intention. From a place that Truly attends to the agenda of our Soul…and not anything less!
I’m still figuring out exactly what that means for me in my own business, as well as my relationship. While I have those uncertainties…This is what I Know…
From this point on, it is time for us…for me…to step into a whole new way of
BEing in our Life! Of this …I AM certain!
We cannot continue to do things the same old way, not if we want to create a life of magic and Soul-filledness.
Today…and the whole year through…I invite You to Trust Your hunches…your intuition…that voice speaking to You from Your heart space! That space within is usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level! Really!
When We decide to BElieve in our ability to create our destiny, We BEcome centered in our Truth… ready to share our passionate enthusiasm for our vision in all We do! In all We are!
Breathe in the readiness to spread Your Light… NOW! Our world could use IT!
Are YOU ready to Celebrate LIFE?
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BE The Source Within YOU… NOW!
With Appreciation, Love & Blessings!
Happy New Year…This Is The End of The World As We Know IT!…NOW!
Hello & Great Day, Beloved!
Well…here we are…The Eve of a brand New Year…2021 Yes, 2021 has dawned …and for many, it’s not one moment too soon.
I Am so thankful that together we have made it through this chaotic and fearful…this so uncertain time of 2020.
As I sit here, conveying my Best Wishes for the New Year approaching, I’d like to digress from the traditional for just a moment.
As I recall that many years ago I learned to play the game of poker, I got to thinking about how much Life is a reflection of what goes on during this same game. Actually, my poker mentors, aside from BEing very patient with my learning curve to somewhat master my rendition of this game called poker, find it quite humorous…not to mention, but I will… annoying, when I hardly ever seemed to fold a hand.
So how does all this affect you?…I know you’re asking yourSelf that very question! Here’s the answer…in more ways than one.
As much as the last 12 months have been a time of struggle and sorrow … it has been an extraordinary opportunity for growth, evolution, and expansion.
Growth in our mindset.
Expansion in new ways for our businesses.
Evolution in our gifts and message to the world…our skills, talents, and abilities…in our impact, …and in our BEing.
And, as we turn to our New Year 2021, and Begin to set goals and make resolutions…
I offer You the following on resolutions for 2021.
If we truly want to create something new, Beginning Now in 2021…The single most important question we can ask OurSelves is…
“What do I need to leave behind in 2020?”
The true nature of resolutions is to resolve… to BE in completion of… to BE released from.
And, if 2020 taught us anything…If we understood that this was the year of Perfect Vision 2020…it was absolute clarity around what we no longer want around, what no longer serves us…and what we want to create for ourSelves, for our families, and for our planet.
My question to You is…What have you made the Powerful decision to leave behind?
Perhaps it’s a relationship that is giving you more pain and challenges than happiness.
Perhaps it’s a fear of financial insecurity.
Perhaps it’s a job that leaves you feeling empty.
Perhaps it’s distractions that prevents you from spending the time you truly desire with your loved ones? Distractions that disallow you from Going Within, and understanding and Living your Authentic Self.
Perhaps it’s the feeling of not good enough, or procrastination, or, even Self sabotage?
Whatever ‘it’ is that you choose to leave behind TODAY will open up a whole new possibility for your Life in this new year!
And, you won’t have to do IT alone.
If we’re not loving Life in the moment…rather than feeling guilty and distracted about the past or worried about the future…
If we’re not putting joyful energy into BEing alive, no matter what Life brings us…
And if we’re not committing fully to everything we do, and everyone we love… then we’re not going “All In”.
I’ll admit, it’s hard to do this all the time! 2020 has revealed that. For Life often gets in the way of Living….Trust and believe, I know with my own personal struggles, especially over the last several months.
However, when we Truly understand and recognize that Life doesn’t happen to us…IT happens for us…
We truly Know it’s our Purpose in this Life to Live, Love and Laugh to the fullest Heaven sent extent possible.
When we go “All In”, we’re giving everything — whether we’re talking about poker or Life.
Especially on this New Year’s Eve… I invite you to do just that…Go “All In” …and give everything…all throughout this New Year…2021!
Yes, it’s time to release all that is not serving us… and realize our Magnificence!…Our Authentic Self from Within!
And while you’re at it…here’s a Thought for 2021…For Life…On… YOU!
YOU Are Marvelous! YOU Are Amazing! YOU Are Loved!
And…most of ALL…YOU Are One with the Divine…with Source…with Spirit…with GOD!
2021 is Our Year to …
BE The Source Within Us…Now!
BELIEVE IT & RECEIVE IT…NOW!
May 2021 BE filled with much Love, Peace, Joy, Excellent Health, & Abundance for YOU, Your families, friends, & Loved ones!
Happy New Year to YOU!
I Remain In Service
With Love and Appreciation!
“There is a mighty Power within you. There is that Spirit of Life, Light, and Love. The more you feast on these ideas and fast from old corrosive ones, the closer you experience the Life you desire.” -Frank Richelieu, The Art of Being Yourself
Rhonda Maria Farrah, MA, DRWA
Help Me Rhonda Now! International
The Art of Feminine Presence™
Contributing Author to America’s Leading Ladies Who Positively Impact Our World
Contributing Author to America’s Star Entrepreneurs…Building A Brighter Tomorrow
Author of the Forthcoming Book
From P.T.A. To Prison…A Journey In My Consciousness To Transformation
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Wherever we are in life, rest assured, we are in a unique spot. No matter what our current situation in life is… Health, age, gender, dreams, finances, career, abilities, Relationships… When we set out to do our personal best and BE the best person we can BE… Moving forward, one foot in front of the other, head held high, hand outstretched to help others …and an open heart… We are just where we should BE!
When you look back at 2020 will you say…
“So glad 2020 is finally over!”
Or will you say…
“Wow! What an amazing year it’s been. I have truly realized what are the priorities in my Life!”
Yes, it’s been a tough year full of much struggle and sadness!
So…with five days left in 2020…ushering in our New Year 2021…This is what I Know…
We have all the energy we need to do and BE everything we are called to do and BE. We have all we need Spiritually to change, and to grow!